Mediumship Tips: Connecting with the Other Side Made Easy

It’s easier than you might think to connect with the other side. In fact, we’re doing it all the time! Every time you think of a loved one who’s passed, notice a sign, or feel a presence, you are already tuning into their energy. Mediumship is a natural ability that we all have access to, whether we realize it or not. It’s not about being born with a special gift; it’s about developing your awareness and trusting what you feel, sense, or know.

Let’s clear up a few misconceptions and dive into how you can deepen your connection with those on the other side.

5 Common Misconceptions About Mediumship:

1. You have to be born with the gift.
   Nope! Mediumship is something you can develop through practice, trust, and intention. Like a muscle, the more you work with it, the stronger it becomes.

2. It’s wrong or dangerous to connect with the other side.
   Connecting with spirit is a beautiful and natural process when done with love, respect, and clear intention. It’s a way to receive guidance, healing, and support.

3. You have to see spirits to be a medium.
   Mediumship isn't just about seeing. You may sense, hear, or even "know" when someone is near. Each person connects differently, and all forms of connection are valid.

4. Messages must be detailed to be real.
   Spirit often communicates in subtle ways—through feelings, symbols, or memories. Trust the small nudges just as much as the big, obvious messages.

5. You need special tools or rituals.
   While tools can enhance your connection, the most important thing is your intention and openness to receiving messages. The tools are just helpful aids.

10 Signs the Other Side is Near:

1. Feeling a sudden chill or warmth in the room.
2. Noticing flickering lights or electronics acting up.
3. Hearing a favorite song of your loved one on the radio.
4. Seeing repeating numbers like 11:11 or 222.
5. Smelling a familiar scent (perfume, flowers, or tobacco).
6. Finding feathers, coins, or symbolic items in unexpected places.
7. Seeing birds, butterflies, or animals that remind you of a loved one.
8. Dreaming about a loved one who has passed.
9. Feeling a presence or soft touch when no one is around.
10. Receiving strong thoughts or feelings that seem to come out of nowhere.

10 Tips for Connecting with the Other Side:

1. Set your intention—be clear about who you’d like to connect with and why.
2. Create a peaceful space—light a candle, sage your area, and invite positive energy.
3. Meditate to quiet your mind—being still helps you tune into subtle energies.
4. Hold a photo or item belonging to the person you want to connect with.
5. Speak aloud or in your mind to your loved one and trust that they hear you.
6. Journal your experiences—keeping a journal helps track the signs, messages, and feelings you receive. Over time, this can reveal patterns and strengthen your connection.
7. Pay attention to signs in the days following your connection; they may show up in unexpected ways.
8. Use crystals like amethyst, selenite, and black tourmaline to enhance your connection.
9. Trust the subtle messages—they often come as feelings, thoughts, or symbols.
10. Be patient—sometimes it takes time to develop your connection, but stay open.

Learning to Trust the Signs:

One of the most important aspects of mediumship is learning to trust the signs that spirit sends. It can be easy to dismiss subtle nudges or small coincidences, but these are often the ways in which spirit communicates. The more you trust, the stronger the connection becomes. Keeping a journal of these experiences can help build your confidence as you reflect on how spirit communicates with you.

A Few Cautions for Mediumship:

• Create a safe, sacred space: It’s important to clear your space with sage or other purifying methods and set a clear intention to invite only positive and loving energy.
• Respect others' boundaries: Do not intrude on people with unsolicited messages. Just because you can connect doesn't mean everyone is ready to receive a message.
• Not all spirits are available: Sometimes, the spirit you're reaching out to may not be ready to connect, and that’s okay. It’s important to respect their energy and timing.

Crystals to Help with Mediumship:

1. Amethyst—enhances intuition and spiritual connection.
2. Selenite—clears energy and creates a pure space for spirit communication.
3. Black Tourmaline—offers protection and grounding while working with spirit.

Preparing the Space:

Before you begin any mediumship work, it’s important to prepare your space. Light a candle to symbolize the light you’re inviting into your practice, burn sage or Palo Santo to clear any lingering energies, and set a loving intention. Incense can also be a lovely complement to help you connect, as its calming scent can enhance the spiritual atmosphere. This preparation helps create a peaceful, sacred space where you can safely connect with the other side.

Remember, mediumship is a journey, and it’s one that deepens with time, patience, and trust. You are more connected to the other side than you may realize, and with practice, you can experience meaningful and loving communication from those who have passed on. Stay open, stay grounded, and always trust the process. 🌟

With Love and Light,
Laurie Barraco 🌟